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Thursday, November 18th, 2010

Posted by:savannacomer36.
Time:12:25 am.
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Monday, June 16th, 2008

Posted by:heartrevolt.
Time:1:36 pm.
The Gender Public Advocacy Coalition is pleased to announce the release of its 2008 GENIUS Survey in partnership with Ernst & Young. GenderPAC works to ensure that classrooms, communities and workplaces are safe for everyone to learn, grow and succeed.

The Gender Equality National Index for Universities & Schools (GENIUS), GenderPAC’s most recent effort to end discrimination and promote awareness, encourages colleges and universities to recognize the benefits of a GenderSAFE campus - supportive equitable and protective for all students. Choosing to participate in GENUIS sends a strong public statement that bullying or discriminating based on the race, sex or gender of a student, faculty, or staff member is not tolerated at your institution

Fill out the survey at: www.gpac.org/GENIUS2008survey, and make sure that we have data for as many schools as possible. Your voice will help us continue to work towards a safe and welcoming environment for every student
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Monday, November 19th, 2007

Subject:National Transgender Day of Remembrance 2007 List of the Dead
Posted by:tristissima.
Time:7:31 pm.
I apologize to those who have complained about my lack of lj-cut's. Occasionally, I feel the abuse to ya'll's friends pages warranted. This is one of those times. Other times, I'm just a rude idiot. This is not one of those times. Please forgive me.

Many or most of you probably already know this, but tomorrow, November
20, is the National (in the U.S.) Transgender Day of Remembrance, a day
chosen in remembrance of a transwoman who was killed (Rita Hester) in
order for us all to remember those throughout the year who have been
killed or died because of their gender identity or presentation.

Every year, I post the list of that year's dead, that their names might
be known, where possible, and they might be remembered, even if for
just one day. The Greco-Romans believed that immortality was to be found
in the memory of those still living and this was why they considered a
braggart nature a heroic virtue. Let us thus remember these victims,
who have historically suffered great mutilations in the course of their
murder, as if their killers were trying to erase them from the
photograph of existence.

All the victims from all years past may be found on

After the list of the dead follows the details of the San Jose Day of
Remembbrance which I will be attending. If you live in the area of
Silicon Valley, please come. If not, I beg of you to find out where and
when the nearest remembrance is. Many of the dead were alone when they
died, and many believed they would always be alone even while they
lived. Let not their loneliness continue into the chill after death. Let
them be warmed by the fire of our tears, our thoughts, and our prayers.

Whichever of the alphabet soup you are (LGBTQQIA -- Lesbian, Gay,
Bisexual, Transgender, Questioning, Queer, Intersex, or Ally -- the last
meaning "we invite straight, cisgendered (non-trans) folk too"), please do
this for them.

Lacking a specific formula as yet, I merely call upon the mup gods to
look, read, and remember:
Hermaphroditus, look at the names of the dead.
Ardhanarisvara, read the names of the dead.
Melek Ta'us, remember the names of the dead.
Eris, look at the names of the dead.
Antinous, read the names of the dead.
Hoor-paar-kraat, remember the names of the dead.
Tlazolteotl, look at the names of the dead.
Azathoth, look at the names of the dead.
Pomba-Gira, read the names of the dead.
Inanna, remember the names of the dead.

List of murdered trans people from Nov. 2006 to Nov. 2007.
For more info see:

www.rememberingourd ead.org/day
============ ========= ========= ========= ==
Nakia Ladelle Baker
Location: Nashville, Tennessee
Age: 31 yrs. old
Cause of Death: trauma to the head
Date of Death: January 7, 2007

Hasan Sabeh
Location: Baghdad, Iraq
Age: 34 yrs. old
Cause of death: Stripped and shot dead by an Islamist death squad
Date of death: January 11, 2007

Keittirat Longnawa
Location: Rassada, Thailand
Age: ?
Cause of Death: Beaten by 9 Youths and then they slit her throat
Date of Death: January 31, 2007

Tatiana (Aldomiro Gomes)
Location: Trani, Italy
Age: 57
Cause of Death: Her skull was bashed in, in the middle of the street
Her head was slammed in a car door.
Date of Death: February 18, 2007

Moira Donaire
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
Age: 30 yrs. Old
Cause of Death: Stabbed 5 times by a street vendor
Date of Death: March 5, 2007

Michelle Carrasco "Chela"
Location: Santiago, Chile
Age: 54 Yrs. Old
Cause of Death: She was found in a pit with her face completely
Date of Death: March 16, 2007

Ruby Rodriguez
Location: San Francisco, California
Age: 27 Yrs. Old
Cause of Death: She had been strangled and was found naked in the
Date of Death: March 16, 2007

Erica Keel
Location: Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
Age: 21 Yrs. Old
Cause of Death: A car repeatedly struck her
Date of Death: March 23, 2007

Bret T. Turner
Location: Madison, Wisconsin
Age: 48 Yrs. Old
Cause of Death: Multiple stab wounds
Date of Death: April 2, 2007

Manuela Di Cesare
Location: Pescara, Italy
Age: 37
Cause of Death: Head smashed by unknown object.
Date of Death: April 21, 2007

Unidentified Male Clad in Female Attire
Location: Kingston, Jamaica
Age: ?
Cause of Death: Gunshot wounds to the chest and lower back
Date of Death: July 7, 2007

Victoria Arellano
Location: San Pedro, California
Age: ?
Cause of Death: She was denied necessary medications to treat
HIV-related side effects.
Date of Death: July 20, 2007

Oscar Mosqueda
Location: Daytona Beach, Florida
Age: ?
Cause of Death: Shot to death
Date of Death: July 29, 2007

Stefania (no found second name)
Location: Roma, Italy
Age: 35
Cause of Death: Violently beaten with skull bashed in.
Date of Death: August 1, 2007

Maribelle Reyes
Location: Houston, Texas
Age: ?
Cause of Death: AIDS; Reyes was turned away from several treatment
centers due to her transgender status.
Date of Death: August 30, 2007

Tuesday, November 20, 2007


The DeFrank Center Ballroom
938 The Alameda San Jose CA

The evening will focus on highlighting the substantial progress made in
understanding and protecting transgender people.

Speaking at the event will be Aejaie Sellers, Executive Director of the
Billy DeFrank LGBT Community Center, Danielle Castro of
TransPowerment, Shelly Prevost, Director of the powerful film "Trained in the way of
men", Reverend Sky Anderson of the San Jose Metropolitan Community
Church and Sylvia Guerrero, The mother of Gwen Araujo.

The evening will conclude with a reading of names for those who lost
their lives due to hate crimes this past year.

For more details please go to: www.reelfreedom.com/DOR_info_2007.htm
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Saturday, April 9th, 2005

Posted by:iwearstockings.
Time:11:16 pm.
Hello there! MY name is Princess Sofia. I am currently pledging for Sigma Kappa Omega. Sister Mistress is in charge of my pledging. She is over seeing everything. I invite everyone to follow my journal as I document all my tasks. She also loves seeing as many comments as possible. She also would like any suggestions for tasks for me to do. Hope you follow along....

Princess Sofia
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Wednesday, May 5th, 2004

Subject:Hmmmm....am I a tea grrl?
Posted by:pansy_boy.
Time:6:07 pm.
Well, I am a transvestite but this seems to be something more than that. I like the Betty Paige image but I don't really know what she stands for in the fetish community. I'm old, so old that it hurts, so I don't listen to rap or hip hop, does that exclude me?

I like the sillyness of being a transvestite, pretty much like a woman will often smile at her girlyness. It doesn't mean that she disrespects that aspect of her personality, it's just nice and silly. I sometimes wonder whether I should have grown out of my girlyness but I haven't, so there! Any comments are welcome

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Friday, April 16th, 2004

Posted by:teresabrig.
Time:10:46 am.
Hello all, new member here. I just wanted to say how lovely it is to have a place for all to speak freely and be open and honest with their feelings. I'm a lifelong tea girl, but have always been very secretive about it. But lately I've had the compulsion to tell others. A couple family members and some people at work now know. It's very refreshing and I've only had good responses. So here I'm letting more people know about the Teresa in me and it feels GREAT! Thanks for listening.
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Sunday, February 29th, 2004

Posted by:sissy_cuckold.
Time:12:29 am.
First time poster....
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Tuesday, January 27th, 2004

Posted by:br0ken_t0y.
Time:8:02 pm.
I was curious if anyone could give me some advice on finding a therapist. I am starting to look into getting an outside mind to help sort some shit out but am not real sure where to start even. Any suggestion are greatly appreciated....Thank you :)
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Monday, January 26th, 2004

Subject:Come and see the violence inherent in the system! Help! Help! I'm being repressed!
Posted by:christinacd75.
Time:11:32 am.
Mood: guilty.
I want to apologize to of_ophelia. She was trying to encourage me to meet up with her and her gf on Saturday, get me dressed up, and take me out to a club, but I didn't follow through. I'm sorry "O" that I didn't go, but I was having that "guilty" and "getting caught" feeling, plus I did have a helluva headache. I just stayed at home and watched movies (MP & HG).

X-posted to:
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Friday, January 23rd, 2004

Posted by:br0ken_t0y.
Time:1:00 pm.
There is something wrong when I find on my way to work that I forgot to remove some nailpolish, so I turn around, race home and then race back to work. Only to find my boss wearing black nail polish when I get there. Evil Evil Irony some days. Then agian I had on purple nail polish that sparkled, a little more um..."fem" mabye. oh well.

I am hurting and confused, I am lost and broken.
I am Camille...The Br0kEn t0y.
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Subject:First, uncut post.
Posted by:of_ophelia.
Time:4:50 pm.
Hello, and welcome to Those_tea_grrls, my newest attempt at a semi-decent community. Topics should be endless, so feel free to really talk about anything you'd like. This would be a unified journal attempt at keeping people up to date with what's going on with your life. Want people to tell you how horrendously pretty you are? Post a picture. Would you like to know how well thought out your essay for finals is? Submit it here. Need someone to talk about a new movie with? I'm sure there will be someone to listen (eventually) here.

Yeah, nobody yet. If you are reading this, you are the first handful. So posting may seem pointless, but why the hell not when you have nothing better to do. It's raining out, or too cold to do anything. Write a little blurb about someone you met at the recycling station. Or about how your new caning technique really leaves a great set of bruises on someone's bottom.

Anyway, just a lead off from your moderator. Have fun, be safe, and flex your creativity.

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